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Francis A. Gaynor

1/18/2023

Francis A. Gaynor of Warwick, NY, passed away peacefully with his loving family by his side on January 18, 2023 following his courageous battle with cholangiocarcinoma resulting from his 9/11 service. He was 50 years old.

Born in Queens, NY on December 11, 1972, he was the son of Dennis and Trudy Gaynor.

Frank was an active duty police officer with the NYPD. He was a first responder at the 9/11 attack and during the time following as part of the rescue and recovery efforts. He volunteered his time with the Boy Scouts and was an Eagle Scout himself, loving all the characteristics that scouting helps to reinforce in young people. Francis was an avid historian and collector of many things including NYPD, Scouts, and military historical memorabilia.

Frank was a parishioner at St. Stephen RC Church.

Frank is survived by his devoted wife of 22 years, Lori Gaynor; two daughters Theresa Van Keuren of Montgomery, NY, and Melanie “Mel” Gaynor of Warwick; son Sean Gaynor of Warwick; grandchildren Jackson and Kayla Van Keuren; parents Dennis and Trudy of Forest Hills, NY; and brother Dennis F. Gaynor, Jr. also of Forest Hills, NY.

The family will receive friends on Monday, January 23^rd from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. at the Lazear-Smith & Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 17 Oakland Avenue, Warwick, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be on Tuesday, January 24^th at 11:00 a.m. at St. Stephen RC Church, 75 Sanfordville Road, Warwick followed by interment in Warwick Cemetery, 50 Oakland Avenue, Warwick. The Funeral Mass will be livestreamed via this link: Gaynor Francis A Funeral 1.24.2023

In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Frank’s memory to the Boy Scouts via the link below. Be sure to scroll down below your personal information in the donation page in order to make the donation in Frank’s name by sliding the tribute button.

https://donations.scouting.org/#/council/388/appeal/83

or research for cholangiocarcinoma via this link

https://cholangiocarcinoma.org/

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The last time that I saw Frank was June of 1999. I remember leaving MTTF for the last time and saying “Good Bye” to Frank. He had his customary smile and he wished me well. He had a very positive presence. It’s comforting that he went on to have a loving family and lived a fulfilling life. My condolences for this loss. My cousin died of 9/11 cancer and that was a long and painful process for everyone close to him. I wish you well for now and in the future. I’ll remember Frank as a young man in his 20s about to embark on a bright future with you and the family that you created together. God be with you always.

Richard McKay
1/19/2023

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Your patience and understanding is greatly appreciated . Your services to George and our family were above and beyond our expectations. Thank you never seems sufficient when the situation appears and is often overwhelming. Your concern for us and our guests will never be forgotten.

... throughout these back to back losses, your gracious concern and professionalism made the time special.

.. not only are you the best - but the town / village of Warwick respects you very much. All with good reason.

I just wanted to thank you and your staff for making Mom’s Memorial Service a success. We appreciate your professionalism and attention to detail.

I believe Mom would have been very pleased with the whole production. Thanks again for making Mom’s day a special memory for our family and friends.

Thank you for all your kindness, compassion and walking me through this very difficult journey with ease. The services were perfect and beautiful because of you. You are very special people and I will never forget you.