Robert H. Stillman

3/22/2024

Robert H. Stillman of Hewitt, NJ, passed away unexpectedly on March 22, 2024. He was 54 years old.

 

Born in Westwood, NJ, on May 30, 1969, he grew up in Haworth, NJ. He was the son of the late W. Robert and Anne (nee Hatfield) Stillman.

 

Rob was the parts manager at Lexus of Orange County.  He worked for Lexus of Ramsey for many years as well. Rob was a former volunteer firefighter with the Upper Greenwood Lake Fire Department. Rob was a proud soldier with the New Jersey National Guard. He was called upon to serve his country with two tours to Iraq, where he received the Bronze Star for his bravery. He was also called upon to assist in Hurricane Katrina, Superstorm Sandy, and many other disasters. With each mission he served his country with immense pride. 

 

Rob is survived by his children: Madelyn, Maeve, and William; their mother Marianne Stillman; stepson Seamus; siblings: John Stillman of Mahwah, NJ; Lynne Koerner of Mahwah, NJ; Lyle Carter of Darien, CT; Rob also leaves behind loving a loving stepmother and stepfather, stepbrothers & sister; many cousins, nieces and nephew; in-laws; co-workers; friends old and new; and fellow service men and women. In essence, Rob was loved by so many and will be missed more than he will ever know. 

 

A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, April 10, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. at by Lazear-Smith & Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 17 Oakland Avenue, Warwick, NY.  Rob’s family would like to invite you for light refreshments at the Upper Greenwood Lake Clubhouse, 435 N. Lakeshore Drive, Hewitt, NJ immediately after the service until 3:00pm. Interment will be private at a later date.

 

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to a mental health organization of your choice. More important than a donation is to spread awareness of the importance of mental health.

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Rob was one of the hardest-working soldiers in the entire 1452 HET company. He was perpetually optimistic regardless of the situation in which we found ourselves. I can attest to his bravery as I was present during the incident for which his actions earned him the Bronze Star. He volunteered for the most dangerous missions and never backed down from any challenge. I hadn't seen him in 15 years but my memories of him are so vibrant that the news of his passing was personally devastating. I will miss him dearly.
Josh Warren
4/13/2024
We attended St. Mary's school and church with the Stillman family and our girls played sports together. Marianne and family - I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Rob as the dad of three beautiful little children and the stepdad of my son's good friend Seamus. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of loss and reflection.
Denise Otto and family
4/11/2024
My deepest condolences to the Stillman family May god give you comfort and peace knowing he is resting in gods arms. Denise Darrin and Ryan
Denise Funnell
4/10/2024
My deepest condolences to the family. We had gone to school together growing up. I'm soo sorry. Prayers for all of you.
Melissa Mitchell
3/30/2024
My condolences to the family ,Robert and I was drives of military truck Het 411 so we spent a lots of time on and off the Battlefield he was a real hero and a great soldier and will be missed.SFC Samuel Retired
Samuel Merritt
3/29/2024
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